plain and simple. 

men's behavior will tell you more about him than anything else. take it from me, watch what he does, not what he says. some things are just well, obviously...obvious. and when a guy isnt into you, its obvious. so i put together a quick reference of red flags for you, girls. if you see them, run and cut your losses. 

1. if he likes you, he will ask for your number. easy as that. dont give him yours, and definitely dont take his if he offers/gives it to you. dont let him trick you into asking him out, it seems like he gave you control, but really he now gets to decide if he wants to go out with you- or even return your call. watch out!
2. 'hanging out' is not dating. if he calls you and asks you out, great! ...anything else is conversation. 
3. cheating is cheating. it doesnt matter whom it was with or how many times it happened. remember- a cheater only cheats himself, because he doesnt get to be with you! 
4. an excuse is a polite rejection.
5. bad boys are actually bad. steer clear.
6. if hes not calling you its because youre not on his mind. you deserve to be with someone who calls you just to say he cant really talk, you also deserve a freaking phone call! 
7. you cant talk your way out of a breakup, its a definitive one, not a democratic one.
8. no answer is your answer.
9. if a guy is treating you like crap, he genuinely doesnt give a crap.
10. murky? not good. if you dont know where the relationship is going, its okay to pull over and ask but remember, 'im confused' means NO every time. and 'i dont want to be your boyfriend' means: i dont want to be your boyfriend. dont spend so much time with a guy who wants to live in your world commitment free. 

im tired to seeing girls in bull crap relationships. i dont care who you are, man, woman, gay, straight- or otherwise. we are all entitled to great, satisfying relationships. be patient, be believing because one day when you least expect it, and when you have stopped looking for it, youll find what you so richly deserve- love.