confidence. 

lets talk about confidence for a bit. confidence is sexy but sexiness isnt primarily based on looks. take someone that is somehow incredibly sexy yet, not very attracitve. thats because sexiness is all about how you carry yourself, how you enter a room.

there are plenty of attractive people who lack sexiness/confidence

and

plenty of actors and actresses on the red carpet that are quite normal looking yet, hot!

its all in the way you carry yourself with a special 'gleam' in your eye, or 'sexy secret' 

which one are you?

first, you gotta pump yourself up! even if you dont believe it, even if youre having a bad hair day, your jeans dont fit, and especially if youre having a fat day, tell yourself ' i am fun to be with, i am a good time, you should be so lucky to be with me, and i can have any of you!' do i always feel like that? psh no! sometimes i dont wanna go out and would rather be at home in my sweatpants eating tacos and watching the office. but you gotta do it! try it out and see if it works, trust me it does. try walking into a club thinking youre too sexy for that place. why? i cannot stress it enough- because your inner monologue is more visible than you think. walk around calmly and casually and just think it. the best part? other women wont be able to pick up on your mindset, but guys will. success! being a sexy confident lady fox -1 being a loser - 0. 

that is all.